Keeping it in Your Pants: How Not to Blow it too Quickly

There’s nothing that kills a mood, a night, an ego, and a reputation more than when you blow your load too quickly.

Men want nothing more than to perform exceedingly well for their partner because 1) the girl is happy and is more likely to want to sleep with you again, 2) she’s more likely to tell her friends and in turn boost your reputation, and 3) you get a lot of satisfaction from doing something well.

But sometimes the sex isn’t HD Brazzers.  Either from excitement, inexperience, or hiatus it’s too easy to lose our sh*t. It sucks and it’s embarrassing but it happens to the best of us.

So after much research and experimentation, the cadre of men here at The Daily Twenties have found some solutions. Some you may know others you may not, but I assure you, you’ll be amused. 

First and foremost: sex is 90% mental 10% physical. It might be counterintuitive but for men who have this problem, you need to get your head out of the bedroom, far from it. And let your primal physical instincts do the doing.

Start before you go out

When you’re in the shower and getting ready to go out, give it a tug. Don’t go out fully cocked and loaded. Curb the excitement so sex isn’t the only thing on your mind the entire night. Just make sure you dispose of it and its not in your ear. We learn from the best (see below)


But in moderation. If you’re too drunk, it won’t work. Get enough in you to loosen yourself up and take your mind off it.

Okay, you’ve successfully made it into the bedroom but the hardest part isn’t over (pun intended). 

Now for some mental discipline. You need to alter your mindset for the next 30-45 minutes.


What sport are you good at? Now close your eyes and imagine yourself on the field or the court. Put the ball in your hand and start shooting baskets, or dribbling the puck, or running for the goal. You are not getting your brains fu*ked out, you are Lebron euro stepping passed Kobe. Play the game baby and it’ll be over before you know it.


I had a teacher in high school that I absolutely detested. She was fat, mean, obnoxious and abrasive. She was the worst and I wouldn’t dare dream to have sex with her in real life. Your mental block, however, can allow this. I know, it’s totally fu*ked up but if you imagine doing it with a gross teacher you hated, I guarantee you will be able to last as long as you want.

Family relatives

K…I’m done.


You get the point. Get your mind out of the bedroom and into the gutter.

Anybody else have some tips?


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